Back home to Arizona, going to stay with my family for a week or so and clear my mind and body of negative things
Where are we going
if you put a frog in boiling water, it will jump out.
if you put a frog in warm water and gradually turn up the heat until the water is boiling, the frog will remain there until it dies.
and that is an abusive relationship.
My life as I know it is done.